These types are people-lovers and place high importance on their relationships with other people. They are naturally concerned about others and take a warm hearted approach to life. They feel connected to people and live by their values. They are loyal to the people and causes they respect. These people are generally enthusiastic and energetic and at the same time conscientious and responsible. They do have a tendency to be self-critical, but are seldom critical in public because they feel responsible for the feelings of others.

The 'Harmonizer' is personable, socially adept, charming and gracious. They are even tempered, tolerant and diplomatic and excellent at promoting harmony around them. They make natural leaders and are popular, charismatic and good at communicating. They decide things based on feelings as opposed to facts and generally like to keep things orderly. They prefer to have matters settled. They look for the good in others and want to help others be the best they can be. 

These people are sympathetic, understanding, nurturing and supportive. They read people well and naturally care how others feel.

Possible downside:
'Harmonizers' are so caring and concerned about others' well being that they may become overly involved in the feelings of others to the point where they compromise their own needs. Sometimes they spend too much effort on unworthy causes. If things don't work out, they can become disillusioned, overwhelmed, and disappointed, which may cause them to withdraw, feeling unappreciated. Type A's would do well to learn to accept the limitations of themselves and others and keep realistic expectations.

Their desire for harmony is so strong that they may ignore the 'real problem' in order to keep everyone happy. They may also hold on to relationships that are not honest and equal because of their desire to avoid conflict.

Sometimes Harmonizers make incorrect assumptions or make decisions too quickly because of their enthusiasm and desire to move on to their next challenge. They can avoid mistakes by waiting until enough information is known before making decisions.

Focusing on emotions gives them the ability to see the affect of their actions on other people, but causes them to loose sight of the logical consequences. They are so idealistic that they see things as they wish they were and may idealize relationships. In general, Harmonizers would do well to try and keep their eyes open as well as their hearts.

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